Scared Men

with our generation developing and evolving at such a fast growing pace these day, still be surprised to hear these local men making such stupid and closeminded comments
how the hell can you dare say that rape victims ask for it with the way they dress?
then why the hell do muslim women, all covered up head to toe, get raped anyway?
how can you make such a comment when you wont even be able to defend what happens to your own kind?
just shows you how this country can remain in the shitlist out here
the fact that a small little island called singapore can gain so much more positive recognition and beat your ass at it
these stuck up Men need to realize just how much they are acting like little kids
they can start by evaluating what they preach about their own religion and how their actions contradict their preaching
they can start by accepting the fact that women are developing more to be independant and less intimidated to voice out
rather than accepting it, they coward up and disregard such potential in these women
they refuse to accept the fact that this country can do so much better when acknowledging smart intelligent and capable women in this country
i strongly believe this is one of the main reasons why the divorce rates had jumped out here
these men who think they are king of the ship wants full control mentally and physically over what they think as their "stock" (women)
reasons why they take more than one wives is so to feed their never-shrinking egos
now i dont mean to sound all feminist and men-hating and all, as i do believe not all men are alike in their mentality
it all depends on the up bringing of individuals
sadly to say, the number of those hit by "Small-Man Complex" is disturbing
how can a country grow at all if these high powered men refuse to shun egos and think of their own people?
how can such high powered men claim to care for their own ppl, when in reality they only care about their own pockets
how your country develops, it all starts from the TOP
so they gots to stop blaming your poorest countrymen and start evaluating they own actions

was reading the other day about blogging and what topics to avoid
what i just talked about, is only stating the truth and the reality of situations
how they preach about not talking about these topics is proof that they ARE afraid of ppl challenging them and being called out on

Fresh Start Here

after going thru so many different blogs, lets hope i settle with this one
try to minimize the bitching, be more positive on the key pad....well....one step at a time
there are so many things on my mind and so many different kinds of emotions going thru right now

though i know i aint alone
many out there are going thru the same thing too
just wish there's someone i know that i can really confide in without holding back
girls and guys are the same
we can claim BFF and tell each other everything, so we claim
though in reality
i dont think that IS reality
i've never been able to make many true friends whom i can talk to about anything
acquaintances and "friends you do stuff with", but not confide in fully

i have a very good friend overseas right now
after moving away, i realize just how much i really miss the social life
aint just talking about the clubs and parties but the ppl i hung out with
the different groups of cultures and the travelling
but yeah she's like sister i never had
though yes there are still things i cant bring myself to tell anyone
not even for myself to hear outloud, how obscene they are
how deep inside i care what my sister would think of me
thinking back...there are many things i wish i could have done better to be there for her
to be a better best friend for her
now that i've learnt my lesson, life goes on

and life goes on and it should with no time wasted on regrets...

surprise myself sometimes at just how fast i really get over things though
fights, breakups, death...
been called emotionless, ice queen and cold bitch several times before
just because i dont dwell on what i cant change doesnt mean im heartless right?
shiet
Life is short, we gotta make the most out of it, whether it is for yourself or for others

and the story of my view on life shall continue...

its late...